Learned some big life lessons this week. I am an instinctive person. I am an INFJ on the Myers-Briggs scale. I have had enough instances in my life that have taught me to trust my gut. So, when I don't and the ramifications are big and emotional it slays me. I know better.
It is tempting to fall into trap of indulgent self pity and guilt because I did not do something when I felt I should have. But, I am fortunate to have friends who challenge me and call me to attention.